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Jan 12, 2024
3:36 AM
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Bringing up Valentine's Day with a new guy can be a delicate and exciting conversation.Consider the stage of your relationship and the level of communication you've established. If you've been seeing each other for a while and feel comfortable discussing plans, it may be easier to bring up Valentine's Day.Keep it casual by mentioning Valentine's Day in a lighthearted manner. For example, you can say, "Hey, have you thought about Valentine's Day plans yet?" This opens the door for a conversation without putting too much pressure on the topic.
Share your thoughts on Valentine's Day and inquire about his perspective. You can say something like, "I've always enjoyed Valentine's Day, even if it's just a small celebration. What are your thoughts on it?"If you're unsure about his feelings or if you both prefer a more relaxed approach, suggest low-key plans. For example, you can propose grabbing dinner, watching a movie, or doing something you both enjoy.If you're comfortable, be open and honest about your expectations and preferences for Valentine's Day. You can say, "I really enjoy celebrating Valentine's Day, and I was wondering if you had any thoughts on how we could spend it together."It's important to respect his feelings and response. If he seems uncertain or prefers not to make elaborate plans, be understanding and open to finding a compromise that works for both of you.
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